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I have a virtual co-worker (virtual – online, since I work from home) who has confided that her marriage was on the rocks. She has been married for ten years and she doesn’t really know when things turned for the worse. Her marriage during the early years was amazing – love was present and her husband doted on her all the time.

Things stayed pretty much the same – almost routine actually – and this is where she thinks things went wrong. She is now trying to insert some excitement and novelty in their marriage and I am really hoping that her efforts don’t go to waste as I can clearly see how much she loves her husband.

Here are some of things she has been doing:

1. She has put on great effort in taking care of her appearance lately. She is exercising to lose weight, putting make-up and dressing up for her husband more.

2.She surprises her husband with little things – a note in his lunch bag, a sweet call from work, taking him out on a date.

3. She also is surprising him when it comes to their bedroom. She ordered adult toys online and ordered sexy lingerie, different kinds of lubrication and edible body paint. She was too shy to order a rabbit vibrator though.

So far, her husband has been responding positively towards her efforts and she is happy with the way things are going. I hope it stays the same!